Richard E. Grant and Joan Washington.Photo: David M. Benett/Dave Benett/Getty

Richard E. Grantis reflecting on the process of writing his newly released memoir a year after thedeath of his wife Joan Washington.
TheStar Wars: The Rise of Skywalkeractor also shared that writing the book “was like resurrecting my wife, because I went through all the stuff of how we met and all the good things that happened to us [over] almost 40 years together, career and personal.”
“So that was amazingly helpful,” he added.
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Grant said that his late wife’s advice to him and Olivia “gave [them] permission to be happy,” even though it was difficult.
But a year later, when Grant looks back at photos of Washington, “I see her in her prime, when she was well, rather than what thecancerdid to her,” he said.
“It’s a trick of what the brain does, and what your memory does, to help you survive,” Grant added.
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Grant announcedthe news of his wife’s deathin a statement on social media Sept. 3, 2021.
Without revealing her cause of death at the time, he shared a sweet video of himself dancing with his love, which ended with the pair hugging in a warm embrace.
“Do not forget us, sweet Monkee-mine,” the actor added alongside a set of broken-heart emojis.
A Pocketful of Happinessisavailable now.
source: people.com